We keep getting questions as to why this account shows up on "people you may know" of our friends and he isnt friends with me on there (As I'd said no at the time!) so he asked me to try and get into it and close it down.
How on earth he's tried numerous times and failed I'll never know as I got into it first time! And whilst trying to work out how to deativate it I noticed he had some messages.
WHY did I look!
The messages to him were innocent enough, from friends who want to get in touch. Wanting his phone number or just check up on him and I relayed these back to him. But I stupidly scrolled down to the messages he'd sent. To a girl.
We werent together at the time. I have absolutely no right to look, mind or have an opinion. I didnt want him at the time, I'd finished with him, I'd told him to move on and I guess thats what he was trying to do.
What did bother me though was who it was to. It wasnt an ex girlfriend as such. But was a girl he has "been with" before. Again, shouldnt bother me. But what did bother me was this girl came up when we first got back together. We'd gone away for a weekend and it turned out he had been there before, with this girl and the story of their weekends together came out. Cant really remember why! I do remember at the time thinking it was odd he would choose to tell this story whilst we were away together!
But this message on fb basically said he "hated" they had lost touch over the years, she looked stunning and he still owed her a weekend in a 5* hotel
This was a message whilst we were apart and as far as either of us knew would never get back together. So why does it bother me?? I guess if it was a random girl it wouldnt?! In all honesty. I do know about girls whilst we were apart and although it gives you that sicky feeling! Its not anything I was really worried about. But the fact she is a girl he's been with before, and had come up already whilst we're away...what if this is someone he thinks about a lot?
She didnt reply (on fb anyway) what if she had?
I know I cant get mad. But I can be worried :(
